Have you ever had your heart broken and thought “this won’t get any better, so why try”??? I have. Even if it’s your fault that they left you al broken and bruised, you think that. People tend to listen to romantic music or avoid them at any cost. I used to listen to them. As you are sitting there depressed and sad, you still listen to them while tear run down your cheek, but you don’t care because all you want is for them to come back. Never once do you think that it’s for the better. You put up walls and close yourself in your own little world where nobody can go in and disturb you. There you stay for what feels like an eternity and you start feeling that no one could be good for you. But when that person comes into your life, your walls begin to break down and even though you try your hardest to keep them up, it’s impossible. You smile at the world, you feel warm again, and you feel loved, respected, trusted and vulnerable at the same time. That vulnerability causes you to become unsure of what is going on and causes you to make things hard for you and for them. I know because I did it and that was my way of avoiding getting hurt or hurting the other person. But one faithful day every wall came down and I didn’t have a care in the world as I was sitting across the person that complimented my way of being. Letting people in and sharing thing you wouldn’t share with anybody with that person requires patience and the right timing, but it must come when they feel that it’s right to share it and not when you push too much that they have to tell you. You have to let the heart decide when it’s time for it. They will appreciate it more when it comes from you because you want to and not because they pressured you into it.
No matter whatever happened to you in your life, we need to keep moving forward with it, doesn’t matter if it’s alone with a broken heart because someday someone will appear and make your life like you’ve never imagined. Mine came into my life a year ago and I am very thankful for the opportunity to be able to open up to someone again. When you are feeling vulnerable with someone, this song could help you out. It did for me because it deals with the same thing, fear of getting hurt again. It’s your life and you should have an open heart when it comes to that person and if you don’t feel comfortable, you need to stay true to your heart. Just be happy with that special someone that will make you a better person, that you can see yourself with in the future. That is what love is about and no one can take that from you.
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