Haven't you ever wonder, why is it that people that call themselves your friends usually look you up whenever they need help with something??? I've noticed that this has become somewhat of a trend these past few weeks.
Everything seems to start good whenever you meet someone, but as time goes by, your friends start asking you for favors. You decide to be a good friend and do the favors, but then everything changes and the only times you talk to them is whenever they need a favor. After a while, you don't even get to spend time with them and the time that you spend together usually gets interrupted in some shape or form.
Boyfriends and girlfriends are usually a big interruption. And the phrase "bro's before hoes" is actually full of shit. Calling every ten minutes or so to check up on you or even cutting the night short. It's annoying when your girlfriend or boyfriend can have a girl's night out or a guy's night out and they keep calling to check up on you. Have you actually canceled plans that you already had just because your bf/gf magically forgot the plans you had, which you have been reminding them for the last two weeks, and they suddenly decide to make plans that involve you and have nothing to do with what you were doing???
They say that when you get a bf or gf you forget about your friends... That's not true. There is a big difference between forgetting about your friends and actually making time for them. Learn to balance them out. Whenever you lose a friend, it's your fault and nobody else's
Taxi servicing and the occasional "buy me this because I love you" are two of annoying line of the friend-losers. Having gone through these two things myself, I can say that these two are not that big of friend-losers, but the existence of these work like a burning fuse that have a bomb at the end.
Having lost lots of friends for lack of time distribution, girlfriend and boyfriends dragging them into their world in a way where nothing from the outside exists and constant interruptions, I can say that it sucks. Sometimes is actually for the best, let them get dragged down by themselves because sometimes is not worth hanging on if you're going to get dragged down with them.
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